Public Apology Of Cyber Stalkers Who Attacked Réza Ganjavi
Public Apology Of Cyber Stalkers Who Attacked Réza Ganjavi
THIS SHOULD SERVE AS A LESSON FOR ALL LOW-LIVES WHO THINK THEY CAN HIDE BEHIND INTERNET AND ATTACK OTHER PEOPLE AND (FALSELY) BELIEVE THEY WON'T GET CAUGHT. THINK TWICE!
REPEAT CYBER STALKER MARK HEILBRON'S PUBLIC APOLOGY TO REZA GANJAVI
MARK HEILBRON'S PUBLIC APOLOGY TO REZA GANJAVI
"A PUBLIC APOLOGY TO REZA GANJAVI
I was thoughtless, reckless & conducted myself in a wholly unwarranted manner in many / almost all conceivable ways towards Reza……I conducted myself in ways that would not in any way be expected nor tolerated in a normal, civil, rational setting between adults interacting & communicating within the proper guidelines that society dictates, demands, and expects….I personally fell far short of standards & morals and displayed a lack of consideration with regard to Reza – his rights, his person, his integrity, his credibility, his sensibilities – in all imaginable ways…..
I did so also with the mistaken reasoning of having my own protected anonymity on the internet…..that is no excuse for the conduct…..it should not have occurred either way in the first place – neither anonymously nor with identity known.
On multiple occasions, Reza made exact, explicit, clear requests to have any & all of my postings that were offensive, harassing, malicious, untruthful or unwarranted to simply end. I ignored his requests for a long time. Harm & damage & hurt in a multitude of ways for Reza ensued. After I ignored his many warnings over a long period, he rightfully was left with no choice but to take legal action against me.
Given a unique set of circumstances here, he did indeed uncover my true identity. This came as a shock, an embarrassment, and an enlightening moment for me. My behavior / conduct toward Reza had consequences. I had acted in a severely wrong, vulgar, malicious, and unacceptable manner. I was faced with a powerful and large lawsuit which could severely impact my future.
I am both happy & relieved to state that the lawsuit has now been settled between Reza and myself. Reza agreed to dismiss me from his civil lawsuit based on my admissions to him that my conduct was 100% wrong, that I have learned from my mistakes, that I will be a better person and importantly that I have a message for anybody who thinks about violating another person’s rights in cyberspace: Don’t Do It. Respect others’ rights, don’t harass people, don’t lie about people, and don’t abuse your anonymity – you can and will get caught.
With compassion & with no obligation to do so at an early stage in the process – Reza has graciously agreed to dismiss me from the case based on my acceptance of certain terms & conditions. My sincere intention is to never recreate this situation through any thoughtless behavior ever again. Not with Reza. Not with anybody. It is not what is expected. It is not what should be accepted. This episode was a wakeup call for me in a way that should not have been needed. Fortunately I have been given the chance to move past this & learn. Reza has provided the opportunity to do so. I am grateful to him for that, beyond what mere words can express. The situations I created for him were abhorrent & nearly unforgivable. Reza found a way to extend forgiveness in a way that I will forever remain grateful.
Based on what I have learned about Reza, I believe he is an admirable man in a great many ways. He has a vast number of successes, accomplishments, achievements & more on his side of the ledger. He is a man of integrity, credibility, good reputation, and compassion.
I attacked & did damage to all of that. It was wrong in every conceivable way. Saying that I’m sorry tells only part of the story. Learning from my mistakes & not ever having a repeat is only part of the story. Taking steps to make amends & compensate Reza for my injustices / wrongdoing is also part of the story. All of these parts have come together. Reza, in his compassion & his ability to extend forgiveness has allowed me to make amends in ways which were all proper and rightful obligations on my part.
Again, my entire posting history in a negative, mean-spirited, untruthful, harassing fashion, toward /regarding /about Reza and others was wrong & I am expressing sincere regrets & apologies. It is not ever to be repeated by myself toward Reza, nor toward any others. It was not proper. It is not expected. It is not acceptable.
I made mistakes. I have learned a lesson here. Reza was the wise instructor / teacher. I was in the wrong. Reza did not deserve my long abusive treatment for any reason, at any time. I have no excuses to offer. I have sincere regrets & sincere wishes for nobody else to do what I have done & mistreat another fellow human being in a repeat manner which I exhibited toward Reza.
I believe that Reza finds my remorse & sadness over what I have done to be genuine. Again, his own conduct throughout this whole process has been gracious & rooted primarily in his desire / belief to correct the injustices done to him in a manner resulting in the admissions of wrongdoing & vows to never repeat. It is simply inclusive of the standards / guidelines / principles with which he conducts and comports himself. He rightfully & correctly expects the same from all others.
Moving the settlement process forward I “enjoyed” our telephone conversations. Reza was civil, gracious & compassionate in all ways..... all of his emails were also the same......much appreciated in ways I don’t know how to fully express....
I can only offer my apologies & through my future conduct, actions & behavior pursue a more correct existence in line with what our society expects, demands & requires. It is a troubled enough world without stupid behavior occurring. My stupid, thoughtless, harmful & troubled behavior created a situation that had no place, no rhyme nor reason for ever occurring. Reza deserved much different & much better. For myself, I bow out now with sincere regrets for all misbehavior & sincere, heartfelt apologies for the same.
Finally, I would also like to end with an apology of an even more personal nature. I was mostly untruthful & deceptive with areas of my own personal life & situation. In many postings, I included embellishments / enhancements / untruths about the life that I actually personally have. There is no excuse. Circumstances in my own life are, to say the least, not the greatest. I created an image of what I would like them to be rather than what they are. It was personal. It was fiction. No harm from that childish, immature display of false light was intended nor do I believe any occurred. It was however deceptive, not proper, not expected & not correct. I entertained myself with the portrayal. It was a wrong choice for me to have made. It was not necessary in any way imaginable. I only want to also apologize for those deceptions and leave you folks in peace.
If this posting generates any comments or discussion, I won’t be reading nor will I be participating. I really do wish all well, but for myself - I am putting IV behind me & in my past now. I will be deleting my account & not looking back.
-- whiteknight3 [Mark Heilbron of Ohio] "
UPDATE, 6 MONTHS LATER...
Well the guy broke his settlement agreement and ended up being sorry again. The settlement agreement took care of it -- he agreed to a break in the liquidated damages I asked for as a quick closure and the case is again closed. My other choice was to sue him for breach of contract and all the stalking he had done before, and also ask for an injunction against him. But he agreed to settle it quickly and he's out of my hair now. This should be a lesson for anybody who wants to abuse the internet to stalk and harass others -- internet is NOT Wild West -- you violate others' rights, you will get caught and prosecuted as I have caught some stalkers and brought them to justice. I am working on a book on the subject.
REZA GANJAVI VS. MARK HEILBRON ET AL.
PLAINTIFF REZA GANJAVI FILED A COMPLAINT IN US FEDERAL COURT AGAINST ANONYMOUS CYBER STALKERS.
SEVERAL WERE IDENTIFIED THROUGH SUBPOENAS AND OTHER WAYS.
THE DEFENDANTS SETTLED THE CASE BEFORE TRIAL.
HERE ARE SOME OF THE KEY FILINGS.
Complaint, REZA GANJAVI, Plaintiff, v. Mark Heilbron, DOES 2 through 10 Defendants.
First Amended Complaint, REZA GANJAVI, Plaintiff, v. Mark Heilbron, DOES 2 through 10 Defendants.
Appendix for form cv-09 (dismissal form)
CYBER LAW -- CATCHING AND PROSECUTING CYBER STALKERS
This is a long story and I will write a book about it. I had a case a few years ago when a bunch of cyber stalkers -- who turned out to be guitarists -- ganged up on me because they were jealous of the success of my CD's, prejudice, and other wicket motives -- thinking they won't get caught because they are hiding behind a username... Anyway, those days cyberlaw wasn't so strong so it took me a lot of effort to find them and bring them to justice (they all settled before trial but I got all that I wanted) -- and I had no choice because the material they fraudulently published was highly damaging.
Last year similar thing happened and I gave the stalker warnings for a year -- but finally had no choice but to sue. This time around laws have improved a lot so it was much easier. The main stalker, Mark Heilbron of Ohio immediately settled the case. I also reached agreements with others and got a bunch of apologies and more importantly, removal of lies they published. It was a major win for civility in cyber space because these cases send a strong message to potential abusers that you can not hide behind a computer screen.
I prosecuted this case on my own without a lawyer in the Federal Court.
REPEAT CYBER STALKER GOT CAUGHT
I caught Mark Heilbron "Whiteknight3" with violation of the terms of his settlement agreement last week. I could have sued him for breach of contract as well as for all his violations for which I had to sue him for (last time I gave him plenty of warning before resorting to legal action which was absolutely my last resort).
Anyway, I decided to let him off the hook without suing him once he agreed to cooperate and agree with my proposal for a quick closure. And he's promised it won't happen again. I hope so...
Update: 5 June 2021 Google indexed this page and sent me a message. So I remembered Mark Heilbron and found out he passed away last year. To be sure it's him, did some more googling:
His obituary: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/wilmette-il/mark-heilbron-9369340 (this page includes his picture that I had never seen before) https://d5nffgciuchtn.cloudfront.net/as/assets-mem-com/cmi/0/4/3/9/9369340/20200922_174256260_0_orig.jpg/-/mark-heilbron-wilmette-il-photos1.jpg?maxheight=650
Funny most of the stalkers who anonymously attacked me (and were caught later) were bald - maybe they were envious I have hair aside from other evil sentiments like racism and being dead jealous of the success of my CDs and so on. As some wise people have said jealousy (rooted in comparison) is a big motive behind hatred and such dark psychological problems.
To further verify it's him. Did a background check. Found names of his relatives and one of them (I think his sister) has the same address that I had on file for him ( Beachwood, OH 44122) -- since the legal case, it seems he moved 20 minutes away. When I busted him he said he lives with his mother.
Emails to a friend on 5 June 2021
I don't know if you remember that cyber stalker Whiteknight3 - he died last year (just found out)... I busted him and he violated the agreement and I busted him again (by grace of God). He paid fine twice. Now I know what he looked like https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/wilmette-il/mark-heilbron-9369340